If You Want To Have Sex - Always Have These Items

When a woman is in your home, you've taken that first step towards having sex with her. All you have to do is create the right kind of seductive atmosphere and you'll be on your way to closing the deal.

The problem is many guys don't know how to properly set up their home for seduction. In fact, these guys put little thought into how to decorate their home and why specific items create the right kind of environment.

The truth is there are certain items (or props) which can make or break any potential sexual encounter. By taking the time to set up properly set up your home, you'll eliminate many of the obstacles which hurt your chances of seducing a woman.

What I'm talking about is having certain items which make you seem childish or immature. For instance, the main character in the movie "The 40 Year Old Virgin" lives in an apartment filled with action figures and toys. If you're home is like this then you're NOT creating a seductive atmosphere.

So your first step is to hide or eliminate any childish items which can turn off a woman.

Then once you've done that you can move on to second phase which involves populating your home with specific items which enhance the mood for seduction.

By "casually" placing certain things throughout your home, you'll create topics of conversation. This will help to move things towards seduction. Having props in your home will make you seem more interesting and attractive then the guy who fills his home with the latest Harry Potter action figure.

So if you want to show a sensual side of you, try including these props throughout your home:

• Sensual and provocative books

• Massage oil

• A musical instrument (If you can play)

• Handcuffs (Shows a kinky sexual side)

• Candles

• Though provoking artwork and paintings

When you place certain items throughout your home, you'll create the image that you're a sexual person with taste. Then when you're entertaining a woman, you can use them to help transition into an intimate encounter.

Pros and Cons of the Age Gap

Being with someone who is several years older or younger than you can be both a blessing and a curse. Before you decide to get serious, you should know what you're getting into.

If you're younger...

PROS

You get to be with someone mature. Someone who doesn't "act out" or throw tantrums just because you happened to mention that you have a crush on a celebrity. Also, because of your lover's life experience, he/she can dish out valuable advice that you couldn't get from your friends.

You can learn a thing or two - and I'm not just talking about life lessons. Older people have had more sexual experiences, and if you've got the right lover, he or she won't hesitate to teach you some new "moves".

Your lover is more interesting than people your age. Again, this is mostly because of life experiences. Older men and women have gone through enough problems and opportunities, and they have several funny, inspiring, painful, and horrifying stories to tell. Also, if the age gap is wide enough, the type of music or movies that he or she likes may be completely different from yours, and getting a taste of these "oldies" can help you grow culturally.

CONS

Emotional baggage. The older man and the older woman have enough emotional baggage to drag you down. Beware of verbally psychoanalyzing their actions - it's unlikely that they want a "kid" to tell them what they did wrong in their lives. Instead, be understanding and make sure that your older lover isn't an emotional vampire who will suck you dry.

If you're older...

PROS

The younger man/woman can inspire you with a sense of awe. Having a young, new body next to you can knock a few years off of your own age. You get to do more youthful things, and you tap the mindset of today's youth.

The younger lover doesn't have that much emotional baggage. This means that things are more "happy-go-lucky" and smoother with the younger lover. You won't get late night conversations about every ex that's ever broken his or her heart. Also, there's not much that you can get compared to. Odds are, if he or she says that you're the best sex in his/her life, it's true.

The younger lover looks up to you. This is because of all the advice and life lessons you have to offer. You've been through a lot, and your lover knows this. Odds are, you're the first one he or she talks to during times of conflict.

CONS

The younger lover can be immature. Sometimes, young lovers are such perfectionists that they seek all sorts of things that you can't give. This is why, if you want to go out with someone younger, make sure that he or she is mature for his or her age.

5 Erogenous Zones You Must Stimulate To Rock Her World

Do you know the secret to improving your sex life?

Well to be honest incredible sex starts with one thing...

Pleasing YOUR woman!

If you can rock her world in the bedroom, then you'll have taken that crucial first step towards having a great sex life.

Now there are a number of methods to pleasing women. But an incredible lover knows that turning her on before sex is the key to bringing her to the big "O"!

So how do you do this?

Well it's simple...

You have to locate and stimulate her erogenous zones.

As you probably know there are certain areas on a woman which are sources of great pleasure. If you know how to concentrate on these areas, you'll become the best lover she's ever had.

Now you might think a woman's only erogenous zone is her breasts, but that's not the case. Actually there are many areas you can stimulate which will get her really excited.

To help you out here are five areas which you can get started with:

1- Her Neck

A woman's neck is THE most sensitive part of her body. To really get her going, you must learn to correctly caress and kiss this area. When doing this, you should run your fingers along her neck and kiss it lightly. Another technique which works incredibly well is to lightly nibble on her neck.

2- Her Hands

As you probably know, a woman's sense of touch is a constant source of pleasure. So if you know how to kiss her hands and caress them, you can quickly build excitement.

What you want to do is run your hands along her palms, play with her fingers, and give her a sensual hand massage. By focusing on her hands you'll be much different from other guys. You'll stand out in a positive way.

3- Her Ears

Another really sensitive area is a woman's ear. If you really want to drive her nuts, you should lick or nibble on her ears.

But I have a quick warning...

Each woman has different sensitivity areas when it comes to their ears. Some love having this area stimulated while others hate it. This means you should be cautious, and start slowly. Then observe her reactions and work from there.

4- Her Feet

A good foot massage can melt a woman like butter. If you can learn how to touch and caress and her feet without tickling her, she'll be really turned on.

What you want to do is gently touch and knead her feet. Then judge her reactions and progress from there.

5- Her Inner Thighs

A woman's inner thighs are incredibly sensitive. Since this is area is close to her "promised land"', you must earn her trust before trying to caress this area.

Simply stroke (or even kiss) this area, then watch her positive reaction. I bet she'll love it!

A woman's erogenous zones are a constant source of pleasure and excitement. If you can properly stimulate these sensitive areas, you'll have her going crazy with passion.

Simply follow sexual tips I provided in this article, and you'll become a provider of incredible sex!

Internet Dating – Quick Success Comes With Trust

If you had a sister who was online dating, what would you tell her?

You'd warn her, "Every guy is a stalker! A perv! A player! An axe-murderer!"

In fact, you have to begin by allowing women a good measure of distrust at the start. She doesn't know you and, frankly, she shouldn't want to go out with you until you've proven yourself trustworthy.

The onus is on you.

Here's how it goes: Trust comes first. Then relaxation.

Only then, will she reveal and release her passion safely.

Now, the biggest mistake most men make is trying to be her friend. To "nice" her into liking you. That is NOT what I am talking about.

You want her to trust you, but as an edgy lover, not as a pal. You need to be exciting but trustworthy.

It's a delicate line to walk. You have to send a series of key "trust-building signifiers." Here are two simple techniques among several that I have tested.

Trust Creating Technique #1: Explore Common Ground

The best way is to read her profile carefully, study how she IMs or emails you, then find one key piece of common ground. And lead with it. Seems obvious, but there is the smart way and the dumb way.

Did you go to the same school? If you both are involved with the same or similar organization – great. Church or charity, tennis, animal rescue. If she has a picture of a dog with her, then tell her a story about your dog, or your childhood dog, or your favorite dog movie.

The key here is don't be a dork and just say "I love dogs too!" Don't SAY it, . . SHOW your love of dogs. . Describe it. Get in some touch words, or sound words. How do you feel when you're with the mutt? Tell a story, paint a picture.

Another common mistake men is that they overdo this technique.

You don't want to sound like you are desperately trying to convince her you are safe. You just want to blend that commonality into the overall electrifying, contrasting signifier flow you are sending her way.

Trust Creating Technique #2: Admit That You Are Both "Adorably Pathetic"

Get above the conversation. Show that you have some altitude and some perspective on how man/woman dynamic go. Tell her you think she is "adorably pathetic."

That means you expect her to be female, think like a female, write like a female, behave like a female – but you will adore her for it. Because she's being just what she's supposed to be.

A girl.

Create trust by adoring her for those foreign girly things about her.

Check among the music she likes, find the sweetest, most "chick" one – especially the Dave Matthews Band. Bust on her for being such a girl for liking it, but throw in that dash of adoration for her pathetic taste.

By the way, you should notch up your advantage. Download Dave's greatest hits and know the songs she loves so that when she brings them up, you are strangely well informed. Trust. Commonality. Instant rapport.

Hold this one in reserve. Unleash your knowledge later. How come you know so much about the music you made fun of? Suddenly you are mysterious. Knowing. This is good. You want to be full of surprises.

If its really girly music, like Damien Rice or John Mayer, you can say you don't like to admit it, but that every so often, you take a break from Radiohead or Metallica and balance yourself out with a dose of Taylor.

Then suggest that this is music you might listen to with someone you care about under the covers on a rainy Sunday morning (paint this kind of picture!).

Build trust by conveying that you like women for being women, even if their tastes are adorably pathetic. We're not supposed to "get" their tastes. But how and masculine, secure and trustworthy to be cool with the difference.

Now she can express herself in the safety of your strong, tolerant, fun and wise container.