5 Types of Guys Who Always Seduce Women

What type of guy are you?

Sounds like a trick question, right? Well the reason I ask this question is because there are certain "types" of guys which women absolutely LOVE. If you can fit into one of these categories, you'll discover that it'll require very little effort to attract a woman.

Now have no fear! If you do NOT fit into any of the following "types" of guys, there is still you can use a woman's attraction to your benefit. But, before we get to how to do that, let's cover the 5 core categories of men which trigger instant attraction in a woman:

The Professor

Men with intelligence can be very sexual to many women. Simply behaving in an authoritative manner, you can make women insane with passion.

Of course, intelligence is the most evident in the "The Professor" archetype . To many women, he seems like a guy who is more mature then other men. His wide variety of knowledge makes women feel comfortable in his presence.

The Cop or Fireman

If you ever paid attention to women when their around firemen or police officers then you know many of them are instantly attracted to these type of guys. In fact, there are some women who turn into "sexual animals" whenever they have a chance to engage a cop or fireman in a conversation.

A lot of these tendencies have to do with these professions have a reputation for taking risks and saving the lives of others. Plus their uniform seems to attract women.

The Musician

Music has a direct link to people's emotions. That's why women can be easily seduced whenever their around "The Musician".

To a lot of girls, a musician is more in tune with his emotions then other guys. In their heads, they think this guy can be a source of sensual lovemaking. Plus a woman might envision this guy writing a "special" song for her.

The Cook

Food is considered one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs known to man. By being able to whip a few fantastic meals, "The Cook" is a great person for attracting women.

When a man knows his way around a kitchen, he is showing positive qualities like creativity and a provider of pleasure. Both of these characteristics are highly attractive to many different women.

The Dangerous Guy

Women are intoxicated by a guy who can live his life on the edge and is not afraid to do his own thing. That's why "The Dangerous Guy" is one of the most seductive personality traits to women.

This guy cares little for what others think. Instead he is not afraid to take risks in life. When around a man like this, women envision themselves going on exciting adventures and being pulled away from their boring lives.

Now after reading about these 5 types of guys you probably wonder what you can do if you DON'T fit into any of these categories. Well, it's simple…

You can take action in your own life to display some of the core traits behind these personality types. For instance, you can become "The Professor" by volunteering to teach a community class in a subject you know.

Or you can become "The Musician" by picking up an instrument and learn how to play it.

And finally, you can become "The Dangerous Guy" by learning how to display alpha male characteristics whenever you're around women.

So if you're having with attracting beautiful women in your life, try to cultivate one of these personality traits. You'll be surprised at how quickly you can become more seductive around women.

If You Want To Have Sex - Always Have These Items

When a woman is in your home, you've taken that first step towards having sex with her. All you have to do is create the right kind of seductive atmosphere and you'll be on your way to closing the deal.

The problem is many guys don't know how to properly set up their home for seduction. In fact, these guys put little thought into how to decorate their home and why specific items create the right kind of environment.

The truth is there are certain items (or props) which can make or break any potential sexual encounter. By taking the time to set up properly set up your home, you'll eliminate many of the obstacles which hurt your chances of seducing a woman.

What I'm talking about is having certain items which make you seem childish or immature. For instance, the main character in the movie "The 40 Year Old Virgin" lives in an apartment filled with action figures and toys. If you're home is like this then you're NOT creating a seductive atmosphere.

So your first step is to hide or eliminate any childish items which can turn off a woman.

Then once you've done that you can move on to second phase which involves populating your home with specific items which enhance the mood for seduction.

By "casually" placing certain things throughout your home, you'll create topics of conversation. This will help to move things towards seduction. Having props in your home will make you seem more interesting and attractive then the guy who fills his home with the latest Harry Potter action figure.

So if you want to show a sensual side of you, try including these props throughout your home:

• Sensual and provocative books

• Massage oil

• A musical instrument (If you can play)

• Handcuffs (Shows a kinky sexual side)

• Candles

• Though provoking artwork and paintings

When you place certain items throughout your home, you'll create the image that you're a sexual person with taste. Then when you're entertaining a woman, you can use them to help transition into an intimate encounter.

5 Tips on How to Flirt with Women

It's a simple reality that most guys don't know how to flirt with women. While they think having a conversation with a woman is flirting, they're far from the truth.

What a lot of men don't know is how flirting involves a different level of communication from the standard conversation. In addition to talking to a woman, you have to demonstrate sexuality and physical attraction. If you can show her an attractive personality, then you'll be on your way to creating instant rapport. And that's where flirting comes in!

Now if you're not sure how to flirt with women, then pay close attention. In this article, you'll learn about 5 easy ways you can flirt with a woman.

Tip #1- Understand flirting

As I said before, many guys have a misconception about the nature of flirting. Flirting is simply about creating sexual tension with a woman. The goal is to joke around with a woman and play fight with her.

Now if you want to create instant attraction, you should start flirting the moment you meet a woman. That way, you'll create positive sexual tension with her.

Tip #2- Be cocky & funny

A great way to flirt with a woman is to use the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is to cultivate a higher status personality which makes women work hard for your attention.

In order to be cocky/funny, you should tease her and focus on getting her to laugh. Just remember that cocky/funny is about having a balance of a confident personality with saying funny things. It's not about acting like a clown or being too arrogant.

Tip #3- Bring sexual tension into the conversation

When you're flirting with a woman, you want her to think of you in a sexual way. That's why it's important to bring up sex into the conversation.

Now when I'm talking about sex, I don't mean you should tell her that you want to have sex with her. Instead you should mention different stories about your friends and some of their funny, yet sexual stories.

Also a great technique is to joke that you're going to marry her. Then go back and forth about what you'll do when you're married. Then when she does something wrong, tell her that "it's over" and you're getting a divorce. Just remember to have fun and joke around with your interaction.

Tip #4- Touch her

Establishing physical contact is a great way to flirt with a woman. If you can break the touch barrier you'll take that first step towards creating physical chemistry.

To touch her, concentrate on the conversation and see if you can detect certain moments when a woman is giving you positive vibes. Then touch her when you want to make a point.

Tip #5- Talk about future adventures

Women want excitement in their lives. That's why it's important to talk about how you're an exciting guy. Now you shouldn't start bragging about how you're a fun guy. Instead you should steer the conversation towards how you bring her on adventures with you.

When you use the "future adventures" technique, you talk and joke about all the fun stuff that you do for her. Just remember to keep it fun and lighthearted. By doing it this way, you're projecting an interesting lifestyle without being too lower status.

Knowing how to flirt with women is a skill that all guys should learn. If you can creating a flirting atmosphere immediately, then you'll be on your way to creating instant attraction. Simply follow the 5 tips I discussed in this article, and you'll be on your way to winning over every women you meet.

Christian Sex - 7 Barriers to Fulfilling Married Sexuality

Many Christian married couples have yet to experience a fulfilling sexuality. Yet, it is an essential ingredient for a vital Christian marriage. Here are 7 barriers to a fun and fulfilling lovemaking for Christian married couples

1. Not knowing what God says about sex

The first commandment God gave was to engage in sex (Genesis 1: 27-28.) God had just created humanity in His image, commanded them to be "fruitful and multiply", and then commented "it was good" (Genesis 1:31.) Somehow, it seems like this was a priority for Adam and Eve.

2. Talking very little with your spouse about sexuality or your preferences.

When couples can share with their spouse about sexuality or their sexual preferences, intimacy is created. An emotional bond results from the intimate level of vulnerability on a conversational level. A great place to start talking about sex is to share what lovemaking means to you emotionally, how frequent you would like to have sex, and even times of the day or specific days.

3. Engaging out of obligation, rather than enjoyment

Many believe sex was solely intended for procreation, rather than recreation. To the contrary, the poetic references in the Song of Solomon describe lovemaking that is enjoyable and anticipated. Feel free to have some fun with sex with different positions and places. However, all must be with respect for your spouse's considerations. I Corinthians 1:4 states that our bodies belong to our mates, not just us. It is written from a spirit of equality, where both spouses are to serve one another, rather than one controlling the other. For one spouse to force the other into sexual behaviors without consent is abusive.

4 Failure to plan

Many couples, Christians especially, are sexually frustrated. While some of this may be attributed to different sexual appetites, much more is a result of infrequency. Sex is never convenient, but is critical to a vital relationship. Plan for sex like you would any other appointment. Rather than thinking of this as stale, consider that it allows you and your spouse time to plan for the special time together. Planning also alleviates any concerns for sexual deprivation and sexual pressure.

5. Using sex as a reward or punishment

Sex is often used as a reward for some positive behavior. Or it can be withheld when one spouse is angry with the other. Couples sabotage themselves when their sex life becomes a bartering system. Because of its vulnerability, lovemaking must be unconditional to be meaningful. Find other ways to thank your spouse, and healthy ways to overcome your resentments.

6. Unresolved sexual abuse issues

Sexual abuse issues follow spouses into marriage. Victims of sexual abuse may have an aversion to lovemaking, or experience painful reminders of the past. For some, there may be a distortion of healthy sexuality. If you have been wounded from sexual abuse, realize that you did nothing to deserve this. Furthermore, there is hope. I encourage you to find a counselor that specializes in this area, and begin the road to recovery. It is one thing to survive sexual abuse, and another to overcome it.

7. Pornography

The most significant destructive force to a healthy sex life is pornography. And yes, I am talking about Christian marriages. Images are burned into a person's mind, thereby creating an insatiable thirst for more erotic behavior, or harmful behaviors. Some couples have stated the use of pornography enhances their sex life. I disagree. Not only is it degrading, but it fosters empty relationships by focusing on the physical rather than love. If your marriage has been affected by pornography, find a qualified counselor to help you rebuild the intimacy in your marriage.

In my experience as a Christian counselor, a lot of confusion exists amongst married couples regarding a healthy Christian sex life. The reality is that God has given sex as a gift for married couples to embrace rather than tolerate, or misuse. So much of today's culture promotes a contaminated view of sex. As Christians, let's change our culture by strengthening our marriages with a healthy Christian sexuality

4 Sizzling Ways to Master the Art of Seduction

Guys have a variety of goals when it comes to dating. Some want to find a serious relationship while others want to causal date. Regardless of your ultimate goal, if you are anything like me, one goal you place high on your wish list is to end up in the bedroom.

Truth be told, it will remain on your wish list unless you take action. If you are a man who knows how to seduce women, stop reading this article and go out and practice. For every other man, read on because you need to know how to seduce a woman if making it into the bedroom is one of your goals.

The good news is that I have provided some tips below to learn the art of seduction and apply the skills all the way to her bedroom.

Improve Yourself

Do I even need to remind you that the art of seduction is not a natural trait of most men?

My guess is that this unfortunate truth goes without saying. Learn to seduce women actually takes a lot of practice.

It is not about reading a book and jotting down a few notes. It takes time, effort and practice. The best way master this art is to simply go out and meet women. Don't try this your way and practice in the mirror until you think you have perfected your routine.

Every time you have the opportunity to meet a woman is an opportunity to fine-tune your seduction skills. Gradually, your seduction skills will feel natural as if they have always been there. Just the act of going out and meeting women is not sufficient, though. You need to approach it as a time to improve yourself and figure out what works and what does not work.

Have a Plan

Or, maybe I should title this section as "Be Prepared" since the better prepared you are, the better chance you will have of success. You must have a plan of action. You must develop a seduction strategy, but do not procrastinate on implementing your plan.

Most men mistakenly think that seduction begins once you have become physically intimate, but this is not the case. You must create a seduction plan that begins with your initial conversation and does not end until you finally have sex.

Plan out such things as where to go for your date, how to best seduce her with conversation, how to transition from the conversation to kissing and then to the bedroom. No, you are not finished seducing. From this point, you must plan how you will make that first move to transition into foreplay and then all the way to sex.

As you see, seduction is a step-by-step process which is most effective when you are prepared for each step and their respective transition.

Slow down

Just because you are "in the mood" does not mean she is yet. Do not make the all too common mistake of rushing into things too quickly. This puts too much pressure on her and can backfire in the end. It can also be a turn-off to many women.

So, to become artfully skilled in seducing women, you must learn to have patience. Focus on creating a sensual mood, talking to her seductively and when the time is right initiating foreplay. Just enjoy the experience.

If it appears that you genuinely enjoy being with her, your chance for success seducing her will increase as she will become more trusting and willing to get into the moment.

Deal with Rejection the Right Way

There will be times when you feel you carried out your plan yet experience rejection. At these times, it is important to handle rejection in a positive way and not angry or frustrated as this will turn her off even more. But, it may not even be about you. Maybe she is sincerely not ready to take things to a sexual point, or maybe she is just not in the mood to have sex. If this is the case, though, and you respond negatively she will be less interested in a "next time."

Be patient, react positively and keep the door open for the future. Don't let a small delay ruin the plan. Just use this time to further seduce her, even if you find that you have to move back a step to conversation. I suppose you should have a Plan B for times like this. Remember, be prepared!

It is my general philosophy that you will have less sex if you keep sex in the forefront of your mind when talking to a woman. Rather, you will probably have more sex if you act as if you really do not care either way.

The most important thing, though, in learning how to be a great seducer is to create a plan and practice. Fine-tune your skills to become the ultimate man of seduction.

The Hershey Kiss Pick Up Technique

Here's a great tip that I found on another website. In a brief article, the author described a great pick-up technique which virtually guarantees you won't be turned down.

It works like this...

First you go to a grocery store and purchase a bag of Hershey Kisses. Make sure you buy two different types of bags. Ie: Chocolate, swirl, almond, etc. Then make sure you carry these Hershey Kisses with you everywhere you go. (Obviously replacing the ones that melt)

Then when you spot an attractive woman, you walk up to her with one Hershey Kiss in each of your hand. Approach her with a big confident smile and tell her "When I see a beautiful woman, I always have to give her a kiss..." Then hold out both of your hands and say "Which do you prefer, chocolate or swirl?"

While it's a bit of goofy way to approach somebody, you'll probably get her to smile and laugh. It's also provides a low pressure way to start talking without resorting to corny pick up lines which NEVER work on women.

Normally I don't recommend any pick-up technique which is cheesy or lower status. But this one seems to actually be pretty effective. You just have to have a good opener to follow once you use this approach technique.

Also it's definitely unique and some women will find it pretty cute. The key to doing this is to target a woman who doesn't look too preoccupied and looks like she wants to be approached.

So if you're having trouble with approaching women, try using the "Hershey Kiss" pick up technique.

5 Steps on How to Get Your Girlfriend Back

Breaking up with a woman is a hard thing for many guys to handle. While you want to move on, you probably still have strong feelings for this one particular woman.

Now if you're constantly thinking of your ex-girlfriend, then pay close attention. In this article, I'll reveal my proven step-by-step system to help you get your girlfriend back.

So if you're secretly pining for a lost love, then try to implement this technique into your life:

Step 1- Analyze what went wrong

Now the important thing to do before you try to get your girlfriend back is to take some time and think about what went wrong. For instance you should ask yourself:

• Is there another guy?

• Does she no longer like you in a romantic way?

• Has there been a dramatic change in her life?

• Are you doing certain things which drive her crazy?

The reason why you ask these questions is to determine if things are fixable between you and your ex-girlfriend. If she's with another guy or was harsh about the break-up, then you probably have LITTLE chance of getting her back.

So before you implement this system, you should first find out if you have a chance of succeeding.

Step 2- Change yourself

Once you've analyzed what went wrong, you need to make changes to your life. The main reason guys get dumped is due to a lack of attraction. So if you want to get her back, you must make subtle changes to yourself which demonstrates attractive qualities.

Now the reason women want to date other guys is these men provide excitement in their lives. Without even knowing it, you probably developed a pattern of wussiness with your ex-girlfriend.

In order to become an attractive to your ex-girlfriend, you need to develop attractive personalities. This includes manly characteristics like confidence, initiative, an interesting personality and determination. If you're able to show these core character traits, then you'll have the attractive personality which ALL women want.

Step 3- Start dating other women

It might seem counterintuitive, but dating other women is a great way to get a girlfriend back. Now it's hard to explain, but women have a crazy logic. They are highly attracted to guys who are "preselected" by other women. By dating other women, you'll be able to trigger her jealous reactions.

Step 4- Become friends with her

Now that you've made changes to yourself and started to date other women, you should contact your ex-girlfriend. When you talk to her, try hard to get her hang out with "as friends". This means grabbing coffee, catching a bit to eat or playing a quick game of pool.

Once you're on this date, just act completely casual. In other words, don't try to convince her to get back with you. Instead just show confidence and amp up your role as a friend. Then every so often make an allusion to one of the women you're dating. Don't be overt about it, but non-chalantly mention that you're actively dating other women.

Step 5- Proceed with normal attraction techniques

Since you're now talking to your ex-girlfriend, you have an opportunity to demonstrate positive qualities. Instead of trying to rekindle things with her, I recommend that you show exactly how much fun you can provide her.

So it's important that you treat her like you would with other girls. This means that you follow the basic attraction and seduction techniques which I recommend.

For instance, you should be cocky/funny, show confidence and act like you don't care about the outcome of your interactions. If you do your job correctly, she'll start to realize that she's missing out on a golden opportunity. Once this happens, she'll start to pursue you!

Being able to get a girlfriend back is hard for many guys to accomplish. But if you're smart enough follow these 5 simple steps, you'll dramatically increase your chances of getting her back into your life.

5 Surefire Rules For Dating Multiple Women

For many guys, dating multiple women seems like a dream come true!

At first it seems like it's lots of fun hanging out with different girls and having a guaranteed supply of sex. Each night you can pick and choose who you want to see.

Bu there is a dark side to dating multiple women…

If you're not careful, it can destroy your life.

When you're dating different women, you're multiplying your risk of something going completely wrong. That's why it's important to know the right way to juggle your dating partners.

So take a look at these 5 rules which can help you prevent a major catastrophe:

1- Be truthful

The first rule for dating multiple women is going to be the hardest. It's simple…

All you have to do is be honest that you're dating multiple women.

Have you ever heard the famous expression: "Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned"? Well the reason I mention this statement it to make you realize that dating multiple women can cause a LOT of problems in your life. If you're lying to women and not telling them that you're dating other girls, then bad things will happen if you're caught.

My advice is to be honest to every woman you're dating. Just explain that you're not ready to settle down and you like to go out with other girls. While some girls won't want date you, they'll at least respect your candid nature.

2- Be in control

Dating multiple women involves a bit of work and effort. When you're out with a different girl every night, you have to make sure you're a master juggler. Now in order to avoid dropping any balls and messing things up, you have to be in complete control of your dating life.

For instance, you should be the one to set up the dates, control where you go and decide when to talk. The reason why you want to control the situation is so you can "pencil in" each girl without being obvious about your dating habits.

3- Set standards

It's a weird psychology, but women are attracted to men who are pre selected by other girls. If you're able to demonstrate that you're a selector instead of the selectee, women will treat you differently from other guys.

So to demonstrate a strong personality you must set a strict code standards in your life and let women know about them. Then if a girl you're dating breaks a rule, you let her know that you won't tolerate her actions. If she's a repeat offender, then you ditch her.

Dating multiple women is about having the freedom to walk away from toxic women who can destroy your life. So set some standards and force women to follow them.

4- Show them respect

Now dating multiple women isn't always about what you want. There are a lot of women who don't mind dating "a player", but they don't appreciated being disrespected.

So no matter what, treat ALL women well and don't make them feel like they're being used. You can do this simply by calling them back, treating them like gold on your date and ensure that each has a chance to go out with you on important nights (Friday & Saturday).

5- Know how to find new girls

Now typically when you've dated multiple women for awhile, you'll have some who transition out of your life. It's a simple truth that some women want to be in a committed relationship or need more from a guy. So be prepared to stop dating some women.

My advice is to remain friendly to the women you've dated. You never know when things might change and you want her back in your life. In addition, she might have cute friends.

Now in addition to being friendly to past girls you've dated, it's also important to find new women to go out with. So always keep your eyes out for new women!

Dating multiple women requires a high level of multi-tasking. If you don't know how to date multiple women, then bad things can happen to you.

All you have to do is follow these 5 rules and you'll find that it's easy to date multiple women. Then you should be able to avoid the complications which can happen.

Online Singles Dating - The Top Tips On How To Find Success Online

You may think millions of people do Online Singles Dating that true. But how many are successful and how many continue to try, and how many are permanently put off by dating scams? I guess you have to ask your self these questions. It is not all easy riding there are certainly many pitfalls and problems you'll find along the way. When you are inexperienced you will not see them coming, this may result in an unhappy experience.
You see I can write about these problems from an experience point of view, having been there and done it.

Firstly if you don't take advice by not reading the right articles you may have to learn the hard way. I don't want to be alarmist but there are many hurdles that you will face and it is best to avoid them. Enough said I do not want to frighten you off Online Singles Dating because there are literally millions of people having success every month and every year.

I will briefly go over the areas that should concern you, and if followed properly will benefit you in the long term.

1) Firstly you need to be able to write the perfect profile. This is your one point of contact with any date. All judgment on you and that potential date will start with your profile. This includes your photograph, your likes, dislikes and personal content. Again you need to get this right if you want to avoid disappointment in the future. For your perfect partner to home in on you and not miss you because your profile was not perfect.

2) With so millions of people going online this is bound to attract many unsavory customers. People that you and I would want to stay clear of. They are scum and should not be on these sites but how do you tell them and how do you avoid them. Again take advice read the right articles and take advice about Online Singles Dating. Don't rush in and regret it be safe not sorry!

3) Once you have set up a date how do you go about meeting that some one. Once more this could be a complete stranger some one you are going to meet for the first time. Take advice on how and where you should meet them on the first date. Again and I feel myself repeating the same line. Take advice read the right articles. This can help you get to know the person well enough before meting them of r the first date.

A lot of this may sound like common sense but unfortunately we seem to loose it when in the quest for love. I have been there and done it and my advice is sound and true with Online Singles Dating.

How to Start, Plan, and Keep a Date Night

It's very common as the relationship progresses, for busy couples to begin to take each other for granted. Usually the first thing that goes in an established relationship is the quality time spent with each other building the relationship. Starting a date night is a great way for couples to 'stay connected' no matter how busy their schedule may become.

What is a date night


A date night is a way to rekindle and reminisce on the times when you both first started dating, and the giddiness it made you feel. For most people, during the dating period both people are on their best behaviors, and arguments and disagreements are kept at a minimum. Many people feel that after they 'got' the person, they wanted, they are no longer dating. This usually makes one or both of the people in the relationship complacent. Complacency is the silent killer of relationships. Date night is a way of taking the ho hum, and turning it into Ooh…hun!

Starting a date night


When you start a date night, you should pick a day of the week that's good for both parties, where there will be few chances for missing the date. Honestly look at and asses both schedules, and sit down and determine the date that's best for both. It's good to also take into account the proposed start and maybe end of date night. For some people, a few hours is fine, for others, date night means all night long. Sit and decided what's the best day and time that both people will be able to actively and openly participate in date night. When you decide on a day and time for date, it's also good to set up the ground rules for how date night should be. These rules should include reasons why and in what circumstances a date night could be broken, and what the penalties for breaking the date night would be. You might also pick an alternative night for date night when the times come when unavoidable situations may arise.

Planning the date night


It takes two devoted people working on the relationship to make and keep the relationship last. As an established couple both parties should actively participate in planning the date night. It's best if each person alternates every other week planning the date night for the other person. Choose activities that both parties enjoy doing and actively can participate in. Be creative and be different. Don't settle for routine when it's your turn to plan for date night. Don't be afraid to try something new and/or choose something that both parties have been interested in trying, but have not done.

If you want to plan a date night for talking, remember to keep the conversation positive and be reflective on your feelings, the good times you had, and the great times yet to come. Date night is not the time, nor the place to air grievances and/or to dump on the other party. Remember that the reason that you want to plan and keep a date night is because you want to continue to build on the intimacy that's already established and to make sure that neither party loses interest in keeping a date night.

Keeping the date night


The most important reason to start and plan a date night is making sure that you keep the date night going. You should try your best to ensure that nothing stops or prevents you from enjoying many nights of date nights throughout your relationship. Inevitably through time, situation, and/or profession, date night will be missed or cancelled. One of the best ways to keep a date night is to establish SPP's (Sexual Penalty Points) for the person that breaks a date night engagement. This is a fun and harmless way that both people win, when a date night is missed. Sit together and make a list of postcards with various sensual acts that a person can pick from when a SPP has been assessed.

Another great way to keep date night is to give friendly reminders and hints about what could be expected during the next date night. Many times the tease or contemplation of what could be expected on date night is enough to intrigue the other party to make sure they don't miss it. Of course, you should be prepared to match the expectation! Giving hints and leaving reminder notes about what you have planned for date night is a great way to keep both parties interest peaked in wanting to keep the date night alive.

Date night is the responsibility of both people in the relationship. Just like it took two people to start the relationship, it will take the same two to make the necessary sacrifices to keep the date night dates. These represent just a few things that you can do to keep your date night active and your relationship moving in the right direction.

Hit with the Ugly Stick

If you more closely resemble Gollum then Brad Pitt, have no fear, you too can date attractive women. This seems like a pipe dream for many men, but if you know how women work you can understand why "that girl is with him". While being easy on the eyes can really help a guy get a woman, any woman no matter how attractive, this can be especially true when it comes to the women who inspire car accidents and double takes, however there are exceptions to the rule most definitely. Once you know the exceptions, you can use them to your advantage.

The number one thing to remember is that if you have an award winning personality, then you don't need to be so concerned about how your look. Women are much less aesthetically inclined. Looks almost always fall second place to a man who has a good heart. This is a big reason why you will see men with women who look way out of their league. Most women know that the real good looking men are jerks because they are aware how easily they can get women to fall all over them. This fact alone makes normal women, not the stuck up and full of them self kind, stay away from the extremely attractive men. So, what your mom told you when you were a kid really is true, it is what is on the inside that matters.

Another reason you will see the hunchback with Selma Hayek on his arm, is because a guy who does not show up his date in looks is very desirable to women. Think about how long a woman takes to get ready to go out. She wants to look even better than she normally does and so she will primp and spackle for hours until she looks just perfect. A guy, who is not so much the stunning specimen of a perfect man, is perfect to accentuate a beautiful woman. She wants all the eyes to be on her, not him, so when she has a man that is average looking she will ensure that she is what the focus of attention is. This also can be related to those men who now have a phrase especially for them, the metrosexuals. If you don't know what a metrosexual is, don't worry, most people don't, but a metrosexual is a man who spends the same amount of time and energy on his appearance as a woman, or a homosexual male. Most real women, not the fake kind that you would find in Hollywood or L.A., do not want a man who spends more time getting ready then they do. They also do not want a man who would back out of a fight if someone disrespected his lady, because he doesn't want to get his new $300 pink, button up silk shirt dirty. A woman spends a lot of time ensuring that she is the center of attention for a reason, and no man should take this away from her. Besides, it is better that she is the focus, because a beautiful woman on a man's arm makes him that much more attractive.

Yet another thing to keep in mind about the way women think is that they are all about the inner man. They want a man who will make them feel like they are the most beautiful thing in the entire world, and a man who really knows that he is lucky to have a beautiful woman, will always appreciate her. This is where the male models really lose out. They care only about looks because they want a woman that will match their beauty, in doing so they miss out on the women who have a well rounded beauty that goes much deeper than their botox. This is where the average man scores. When you treat a woman with respect, and you show them that you are there for much more than the looks of a woman, this is what makes for a good relationship and this is what opens the door for even the most troll looking men. A woman is ultimately looking for substance in a relationship and if you can provide that then you do not even have to worry about the Fabio's of the world. In this also you have to realize that in a lot of ways the woman you see before you at the present probably didn't always look the way she does now. A guy who is average looking will really do well for himself to find women who do not look like they stepped off the red carpet and instead look for the women who are still beautiful but are not swarmed with the model men. Barbie and Ken can have each other, they are beautiful on the outside but completely hollow inside, and really that would not make for any kind of a relationship. Scope out instead, the women who do not resemble a plastic doll. Even those who look a bit sloppy will, when a man adores and loves them, start to dress and groom better to ensure that her man looks good. A potential knock out can serve you better than the store bought kind anyway.

Christian Dating Site Review - Why Christian Cafe is a Top Choice

Christian Café is the top choice among the Christian dating site options. This is a comfy, cozy Christian Dating Service filled with a lot of Christian Singles. In fact, according to them, they have become the largest Christian dating site on the Internet.

They are on the higher end of the dating site price structures, but they are also a quality site and you're getting the opportunity to meet a lot more people there. They also offer a free trial of their service so you can "try it before you buy it." You will just need to create your own profile and then other Christian singles will start writing to you!

In addition, the site offers a lot of good functionality, but sometimes that slows the site down a bit. It is not really a problem unless you have a slow connection to the internet already.

The most important aspect of the site to us is that is was started by Christians for Christians. It is not started by a service trying to just make money off of Christians, but instead, it was started by those who genuinely wanted true followers of Christ to find happiness with another believer. The bible gives us clear instructions for believers to marry other believers. Christian Cafe helps you find that right person.

That commitment and cause is evident in the site, the community it has attracted, and the quality and integrity of the service provided.

It is easy to see why Christian Café is a top choice for Christian singles today.

Attract Women Who Have A BoyrFriend The Same Way You Attract Women Who Are Single

A lot of men like to think that there is a certain way that you deal with women who have a boyfriend in order to make her be with you.

Yet, the truth is women who are in a relationship with someone else will get with you if you are able to create enough attraction inside of her.

The only real question is will she leave the other man for you or simply cheat on him.

A woman's decision all depends on what you have to offer and what the woman is looking for.

However, it is important that you understand any woman who leaves another man for you is also capable of doing the same thing to you.

In other words, any woman that you can take from another man is a woman you shouldn't be with.

At least, if having a good life with a good woman that you don't have to worry about leaving you or cheating on you, is what you want.

If all you want is an attractive woman who will bring much drama into your life then go ahead and try and take her from her man.

Of course, in order to do that, you are going to have to create attraction inside of her like you did with every other woman you have attracted, if you ever have.

In the end, attracting women who already have a man isn't much different than attracting women who don't. Except for the fact that women who have a man who you can attract are the type of women you don't want.

Planning A Second Date

When it comes to choosing something to do for the second date, choose a fun activity to keep it casual and light; you're still trying to get to know the person on the second date. When calling for a second date ask them what they would like to do, and if they tell you that they don't know or don't care, take the initiative and make some suggestions.

When deciding what to do, try to stay away from movies or double dating because these activities tend to limit conversation. You want to get to know the person and you want to be able to keep the conversation flowing. Try going for a walk on the beach or a hike in the park. Miniature Golf is a popular activity for a second date because of the fun factor; there is little pressure and the relaxed atmosphere will make the two of you more comfortable.

Bowling is a classic activity and perfect for a second date as well. It's tons of fun and you can have some great conversation at the same time. If you're looking for something different, check your local paper for upcoming fairs (art, food, etc) or events at your local park.

Try to keep the second date fun. If you want to make it feel less like a second date, ask them out during the week. Friday and Saturday are usually date nights so see if they're available during the week. Plan a short date that doesn't run too long such as grabbing some coffee or a drink after work. Afterwards, you can schedule a third date for the weekend. Now that you've gotten over the second date jitters, the third date will be much more comfortable.

Dating isn't easy and seldom does it go exactly as planned. When planning your second date, try to keep it simple and fun so that you don't end up overwhelming your date.

3 Golden Rules for Using Laughter to Build Attraction

One of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard is this:

"If you can get a woman to laugh ALL the time you'll be able to get her into bed"

Yes, it's true!

There is a direct link between getting a woman to laugh and you're ability to build attraction. By using humor, you'll increase attraction and will be able to seduce her.

But there is one major problem with using humor:

90% of ALL men are doing it wrong!

While many guys know that laughter is a key to a woman's heart, they're using it in a completely wrong way. That's why it's important to understand how humor should be used.

In this article, you'll learn about the 3 golden rules for using laughter to build attraction:

Rule #1- Never use self deprecating humor

The most important rule for trying to make a woman laugh is this:

Self-deprecating humor should never be used.

Now if you don't have a dictionary handy, self-deprecating humor is any type of joke or action which points out one of your faults. It's important to NEVER use these types of jokes because it demonstrates lower status to women.

Your goal for interacting with women is to demonstrate higher status and establish yourself as a fun guy to be around. So your jokes and action should increase your status instead of reducing it.

Rule #2- Use humor to tease and mock

Instead of directing the humor at yourself, you should direct it at her. Yeah, I know you're probably not used to insulting women, but there is a fine art to using humor to build attraction.

Let me explain something about women…

Most of the time women are used to guys kissing their butts. Typically other men will shower women with compliments in the hopes of getting them into the bedroom. The problem is women grow tired of guys who use the same boot-licking and supplicating lines.

In order to stand out from these guys, you need to use your humor to tease a woman. While you should never be a jerk, you can build attraction by noticing her imperfections and telling funny jokes about it.

Believe me, you'll have a woman laughing hysterically if you can embrace this personality and learn to joke around with her.

Rule #3- Let humor be ONE part of your personality

The final rule is to know when to turn off the teasing and attempts at humor. Whenever you're in a conversation with a woman, there is a time to be funny and there's a time when it doesn't work.

As you've probably discovered, a woman wants guys who be something more then a slap-stick personality. In order for you to be seductive, you have to show other core personality traits in addition to humor.

For instance if you want to a seductive guy, you have to demonstrate things like:

• Confidence

• Initiative

• Intelligence

• Communication

• Interest

By having all of these personality traits, you'll be perceived as a higher status alpha male. Thus you'll be a funny guy, while showing other attractive personality traits.

Using humor is an important part of dating and seduction. By knowing how to properly use humor and make women laugh, you'll find that it's easy to increase attraction.

If can adhere to these three rules you'll stand out from other guys and will increase your overall success with women.

Use The Scarcity Principle To Get More Dates

I bet you get frustrated when you approach a beautiful woman and she blows you off.

If that's the case, then this tip can help you out. In this tip you'll learn about the Scarcity Principle and why it's important for attracting women.

According to the Scarcity Principle, humans tend to operate on a fear of loss instead of a fear of gain. In other words, if a woman thinks she "has" you, then she won't be that interested. On other hand, if she thinks she's going to lose you, then she'll be more interested in pursuing YOU.

Here's how the Scarcity Principle would work when you're talking to a woman:

Say you're getting a vibe from a woman that she's not interested in you. Or she tells you she doesn't want to give her number or go on a date.

Normally most guys would give up and walk away.

You won't!

Instead of giving up, you should make her think she's going to miss out on something incredible.

You could say something like:

"If we went on a date, YOU could have had the best time of your life. But your hesitation is hurting your chances. You could be losing out on something that could have been great!"

This technique works because you're describing a great benefit she COULD receive then telling her that she can't have it. It's like you're taking something away from her

So next time you're talking to a woman, use a few scarcity lines to get her interested in getting your number or setting up a date.

Seduce Women By Knowing How to Bust a Move

As you can see by now, "self improvement" is an important part of improving your chances with women. By making subtle changes to your personality, appearance and lifestyle, you'll become a more attractive guy.

Well in this tip, I'll focus on why learning how to dance can help you become more of an interesting person.

Now I know...

Dancing probably makes you really nervous.

In fact it's widely known that a lot of guys would rather fight in a war rather then dance in front of others. Furthermore, some guys actually have crippling fear about dancing.

That being said, having skill at dancing can be secret weapon for attracting women. If you can learn how to dance well, you'll have an UNFAIR advantage over other men.

Listen…

Women LOVE men who can dance. If you learn how to dance, most women will think you're a sexy guy. By dancing well, they'll wonder what you're like in the sack. (This is a good thing!)

Now if you're like other men, dancing isn't your strength.

Here's what you can do...

Take a dance class!

Seriously, there are dance classes all over the place. Just find one which focuses on beginners and you'll be on your way to learning a valuable seduction skill.

My recommendation is take a class which teaches Salsa or Latin dancing. While you might feel ridiculous at first, going to one of these classes can help you learn a natural rhythm on the dance floor.

In addition to the benefit of learning a skill there is another great reason for taking dance classes. These classes are FILLED WITH WOMEN. So you can easily approach women while learning how to dance at the same time!

Learning how to dance is a great skill which makes men attractive to women. If you take the time to go to classes and develop this skill, you'll become incredibly attractive guy.