Don't Take Your Lover For Granted

Tom recently had a quarrel with his fiancée, Mandy.
It was all about a break down in communication between the two of them. They just realized that they were drifting apart daily, and were not talking as much as they used to.
Where they would talk and chat for hours on end before, they were now spending minutes to just talk generally. They didn't connect wth each others' hearts like they used to before.

It didn't need a diviner to tell them both that they were about to split up. Despite the love that they once had for each other, the ominous signs of a separation were there for any observer to see.

Many times, people in a relationship tend to take each other for granted, especially if they have been together for quite a while.

Assumptions about each other start to come in, and as a wise man said, assumptions are the mother of frustrations. Typically, frustrations start to set in between the two of them, and they begin to grow apart.

Taking your partner for granted is the sure way to kill the love you have for him or her. No one likes to be treated casually.
After all, your partner is supposed to be the most important person, and the most special person in your life.

He or she must be treated that way at all times. Both of you must not stop being courteous and affectionate towards each other. You should continue to do those things that endeared you to each other at the beginning of your relationship.

That is the way to keep the fires of love burning for each other.
Don't make assumptions about your partner. Always clarify issues, and at all times, keep the lines of communication open.
This way, you will avoid a potential break up in your relationship.